Wednesday, September 26, 2012

non-verbose.

So often I keep my thoughts in my head.  Usually it's a strategy move, I wait and watch and observe until I get a handle on the situation and then swoop in to make it work for me. I learn a lot from watching, more people should shut up and tune in. Other times, though, it's not intentional and I hate feeling like I can't get the right words out of my mouth at the right time.

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  1. More people should keep silent and tune in! Whether you call it active listening or simply practice the skill of listening at least 3 times as much as you speak, it is the key to getting the big picture!
    I don't see this as a strategy move, however, simply as a wise, mindful person. Knowing when to speak, and what to say, that is a skill to be honed as life goes on

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  2. I do this in class but can never find the balance between saying nothing and blurting things out

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